The widowhood effect is the increase in the probability of a person dying a relatively short time after their long-time spouse has died. The pattern indicates a sharp increase in risk of death for the widower, particularly but not exclusively, in the three months closest thereafter the death of the spouse.

How do widowers behave?

Watch for red flags. It can be hard for a widow or widower to feel comfortable introducing a new partner to family and friends — or, for some, even to be seen in the community. Communicate your relationship needs and goals. Dont let yourself be a consolation prize. Tread lightly when it comes to children.Feb 16, 2021